No Means No

  by Esperanza M You’re not entitled to anyone’s body, and no one is entitled to your body. Others’ boundaries are valid and so are yours. Please don’t forget: consent and respect are everything. You deserve to be in control and to feel safe no matter what.

Your Gender is Valid

by Esperanza M How you feel and how you choose to define and present yourself is valid. Do whatever you feel happy and comfortable doing. And if you don’t feel like labeling yourself or defining yourself, that’s valid as well. If you’re still figuring out what you are, that’s also valid, you’ll figure it out eventually, don’t…

You’re not entitled to my body

  by Esperanza M No matter what you’re wearing, no matter where you are, if it’s late at night, if you’re alone or drunk, no one has the right to harass you in any way, it is never your fault. Your body is yours and yours alone.

Stop Pretending

 by Esperanza M Stop pretending girls are ethereal beings instead of humans. Stop feeling grossed out by nature. Stop with your ridiculous expectations. We have body hair, stretch marks, scars and birth marks. We have biological functions and needs, Blood pours out of ourselves once a month for days. We are humans. We are living beings.…